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Why did my wife and I write a book on “The Pastor’s Family” (Promo video)?

My new book written with my wife, Cara on The Pastor’s Family will soon be released.  For those interested in the book and why my wife and I wrote it, here is a new 2 minute promo video where Cara and I explain what the book is and why we wrote it at this significant time in our family life and ministry.   Spread the word.

The Pastor’s Family:  Shepherding your family through the challenges of pastoral ministry.  By Brian and Cara Croft  (available for pre-order)

“We’re happy to commend, not only this book, but Brian and Cara, for modeling so much of what is recommended here.” -Thabiti & Kristie Anyabwile (from the foreword)

Available for pre-order here.  (Release date: August 2013)

“In The Pastor’s Family, Brian and Cara Croft provide a frank and helpful discussion of the challenges that pastors and their families face day-by-day. For pastors in training, this book provides a realistic framework for future ministry. For pastors on the field, it provides encouragement and wisdom from a couple that’s walking the same path as you. For church members, it provides an invaluable glimpse into the dynamics of a pastor’s life. Highly recommended.”

Timothy Paul Jones, Ph.D.,Associate Vice President and Professor of Leadership, SBTS

 

“I know Brian as an effective, compassionate pastor of a vital church here in Louisville, and I am thrilled that he and Cara have written this book to assist pastors in the practical, day to day challenges of ministry and the often complex challenges of doing life together as a ministry couple.  Read it as a couple and do the exercises together. It will take your relationship and your ministry to a new level.  I just wish this book had been around when I was serving as a senior minister.”

Bob Russell, Former Pastor Southeast Christian Church

 

“Realistic…Honest…Transparent…Spiritual…Practical.” These are the words that sprang to my mind as I read this unique book that will refresh many pastors’ souls, rescue many pastors’ marriages, transform many pastors’ families, and revive many pastors’ ministries.”

David P Murray, Professor of Pastoral Theology, PRTS

 

“All throughout the history of the church there have been pastors, so many pastors, who have sacrificed their families on the altar of ministry. Too many neglected wives and forsaken children can testify to men who time and time again chose ministry in place of family. Every pastor can testify to the power of this temptation, which is exactly why there is such an urgent need for Brian and Cara Croft’s book, The Pastors Family. This book challenges pastors to care first and best for their wives and children and it carefully draws upon biblical wisdom to allow them to do that very thing. It is a book I will read with my wife and one I heartily recommend to every pastor.”

Tim Challies

Posted in Home and Family, Promotion

Should a pastor use an electronic or hard copy of the Bible when ministering to people?

It is safe to say the Reformers never had to tackle this question.  However, it is certainly one we face now and has important implications to the fruitfulness of a pastor’s ministry today.  As this question has forced its way on the scene as a result of our growing technological advances, so have strong opinions on this matter.  Many of these opinions are nothing more than preferences.  And yet, there are still some pastoral issues that need to be considered if we as pastors in this technological age desire to avoid any unnecessary distractions so to be most fruitful and effective.  Here is a basic template for every pastor to consider in determining the kind of means we should use as we seek to minister God’s word to God’s people:

1)  Consider your audience.  The age of your congregation matters a great deal in discerning these issues.  A pastor could sit at the bedside of a sick person and read God’s word from an electronic device and be found to do so with someone under 40 years old much more than someone over the age of 40.  That is not always the case though.  Just because a younger person will probably be more “tech-savy” does not mean reading from an iPod could not also be a distraction for them like it would be for an 80-year-old.

2)  Determine your level of confidence.  These decisions need to be made on your confidence level relationally with the person to whom your are ministering.  How well do you know them? How well do they know you and will they understand, even expect you, to whip out a Kindle when you go to read God’s word to them?  I suggest always erring on the side of caution.  If you are visiting an 80-year-old widow who does not own a computer of any kind and still does not know what the internet is (trust me, they still proudly exist) it is probably best to always take a hard copy of God’s Word to read with her.  She may think you are trying to pull something over on her if she cannot see “Holy Bible” printed on the front.

3)  Know your surroundings.  Making this decision is not just based on the engagement of the person, but the places you minister where others might be around.  I think hospitals, funeral homes, and similar traditional settings where many different kinds of people with different backgrounds and ages will be involved present needs to be properly evaluated.  Pastors need to realize some might interpret your gadget your brought that “acts as a Bible replacement” as a distraction.  Think of unbelievers in the room who may be wondering what are you reading.  “You could be reading anything from that thing.  How do I know it is the Bible?”  On the other hand, your small group Bible study with your crew of college students where everybody is reading off a Kindle or iPod…a physical Bible might look even strange to them.

4)  Guard from legalism.  As many pastors possess their own “soap boxes” on this matter, each of us need to guard from being legalistic about this issue.  God’s word is no less God’s word in printed form inside a really snazzy colored cover with a giant cross on the front, or on the really tiny print on your smart phone.  Let’s keep this from becoming the next “King James only” controversy and just call it what it is: a preference.  As long it is a credible translation of the Bible and a credible, untampered printed or electronic copy of that translation (of which there are many)…it is God’s word.  Don’t make more of an issue of this than it should be.

5)  Trust the source.  Our effectiveness to minister to our people ultimately has nothing to do with the means from which we read it, as long as it is the inerrant, infallible, powerful Word of the living God.  God, by his Spirit and through his living and active word, is what changes and effects people.  Minister that word and do not rely much at all on the “mechanics” of what you read from, but do so in a discerning way that avoids any distractions from God doing what he does through his word in the lives of his people when his shepherds faithfully bring it to bear on souls.

Lately, I find myself doing regular Bible reading off my Kindle Fire, yet you will always find me with a hard copy of God’s Word when entering a funeral home, hospital room or home of an elderly saint.  At this point, you will not find me using my Kindle when I preach, not out of any theological principle, but because of my fear of trusting technology that much.  Each pastor needs to determine his own comfort level to embrace the blessings of technology as we should, yet mindful of any unhelpful perception that might exist that could hinder your efforts to care for souls.

Posted in Oversight of Souls, Preaching, Training for Ministry

Is there a unique and meaningful role women can play in preparing the Lord’s Supper?

We have discovered one.  Though most roles in preparing and serving the Lord’s Supper in many churches are played by men, certain women play a very significant role in the preparation of ours.  For those unfamiliar with the common practice of Southern Baptist Churches, the Lord’s Supper is done once a quarter (4 times a year) and small tiny crackers (size of a thumbnail) are often used as the bread.

In response to a dear friend challenging me on trying to change our practice to make this experience more meaningful, we made a few changes from the norm.  We changed the frequency to once or twice a month.  Instead of using small, stale crackers we began using real bread (one loaf broken during the presentation for visual effect and the other cut into pieces and passed out).

This is where some precious ladies in our church play a meaningful role in the Lord’s Supper.  The bread used for the Lord’s Supper is made by a certain lady in our church and is brought the day of the Lord’s Supper.  The bread is fresh.  It is visually appealing.  The joy these ladies feel in being able to serve the church in this way is tremendous.

Imagine the appreciation the congregation feels knowing someone has labored to bake this bread to serve them.  Imagine the joy that lady in the church feels as she watches the entire congregation partake of the bread she made that represents the body of our Savior.  This has proven very meaningful to all involved and has enhanced our experience as a congregation every time we come to partake.

I know this scenario proves more difficult depending on size of church and method of coming to the Table.  Nevertheless, I encourage you to find a way for ladies to appropriately serve in this area, as it has done nothing but enhance our unity as a church and communion with Christ at the Table.

Posted in Discipleship, Oversight of Souls

Come visit our Practical Shepherding booth at the SBC…

For those who are attending the Southern Baptist Convention in Houston, TX this week, should come by our booth.  Our booth location is #1919.  Sam Bierig is manning the booth for us and would love to meet you!  Come by and meet Sam and register for our drawing to win a set of Practical Shepherding books as well as receive some free materials about our ministry.  We hope to see you there!

Posted in Promotion
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