Ep. 311: Cultivating Friendships

Brian Croft and Jim Savastio discuss the topic of Christian friendship in this episode, emphasizing its significance, especially for pastors. They explore Biblical models like Jonathan and David, highlighting the value of companionship, trust, safety, and presence in true friendship.

The conversation addresses why many men struggle to form deep bonds—cultural expectations, busyness, and superficial connections. The episode underscores that meaningful friendships require vulnerability, persistence, and investment.

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(00:43) Introducing the Topic: Christian friendship, especially among pastors

(2:00) Biblical foundations: Proverbs 17:17, Ecclesiastes 4, Jonathan & David

(04:54) Challenges for men in forming close friendships

(07:00) Defining friendship—surface vs. deep bonds

(10:00) Men’s reluctance to invest in friendships

(12:37) Pastors’ relationships: transactional vs. genuine

(14:02) Qualities of true friendship: presence, safety, loyalty, emotional connection

(22:00) Cultivating friendship: prayer, planning, risk-taking, listening, being present

(30:00) Sanctifying influence—“iron sharpens iron”

(31:31) Final word and prayer